About Laira

I’ve been married for 25 years. If that sounds like a long time, it is. Long enough to know the honeymoon phase is a tiny fraction of the story. The rest is built on something much more important: trust and communication.

I’m a Marriage and Intimacy Facilitator, and I believe most of our disconnection comes from a simple lack of words, especially around the heavy stuff like sex and physical intimacy. We weren’t taught how to say what we actually need. So we go through the daily motions of life and wonder why we feel so far apart from the people we’re closest to.

That’s the part I help with. Finding the hard but honest language for the things that matter, and then actually saying it to each other.

I’m based in Toronto and work virtually with couples wherever they are, and with partners who come on their own first. You’ll leave sessions with things to try at home, because that’s where most of the real conversations happen.